20 December 2019

All good things...

We'll be taking care of our neighbor C's cat, along with her daughter's cat, next week. The daughter, B, is driving up from Bordeaux and then she and her mother are taking C's baby granddaughter up to Paris for a couple of days. They have friends and family up there. C grew up in the Paris area before moving to Saint-Aignan with her parents in the late 1960s when she was not yet 20 years old.

There. I've just summarized the situation. C has decided to sell her late parents' house here in Saint-Aignan, where she has been living since her father died more than 20 years ago. She's moving to Bordeaux to be closer to her daughter and granddaughter, who live down there.

This is our neighbor C's house. More about it tomorrow...

Another of her motivations, I'm sure, is to move out of a huge old two-story house and into a smaller house with no stairs (she's the same age as me, so I understand) — one that will be easier and less expensive to heat as well. The house here is very big for just one person. C's daughter B moved out several years ago to go to college. Then she entered the work world in Bordeaux, and now she has a two-year-old daughter. Besides, C's mother passed away nearly a decade ago. She was a 92-year-old widow.

For us, one of the bad things about C's decision is the cat issue I mentioned above. This phase of our relationship with C began nearly five years ago, when Walt and I got tired of not being able to travel together, to spend nights away from home, because we have both a cat and a dog. The cat, Bertie, is one that we "rescued" nearly 10 years ago when the people he lived with decided to move back to England. Nobody wanted Bertie — not even the SPA (the local animal shelter) — so we took him in. C has always had cats, and she faced the same issue about traveling and worrying about her cat.

Walt and I went on short trips to the Champagne region and to lower Normandy in 2011, after we adopted Bertie in 2010. Three or four days was as long as we felt comfortable leaving him alone. He slept in the garage back then, and we would leave a lot of kibble and water for him in several bowls down in the utility room. The weather wasn't cold.

In early 2012 we had an English friend who came and house-, dog-, and cat-sat while we went and spent two weeks in Upstate New York. That's when we got married. That friend moved back to England later in 2012. In 2014, we wanted to go spend four days in Burgundy. Friends from Australia were staying in the region that year, and they volunteered to come over and make sure Bertie was fine while we were gone. On the shorter car trips, we would take the dog (Callie) with us. Quite a few gîtes ruraux will let people bring their dog with them when they come to stay.

Here's an aerial view of our "hamlet" (neighborhood). C's house is part of a cluster of three old farmhouses.

At some point, in late 2014 or early 2015, our neighbor C asked us if we would be able to take care of her cat while she went on a trip down to the Bordeaux area. We said that wouldn't be a problem. The idea was to go over to her house every morning, feed her cat, and then let her out for the day. Late in the afternoon, one of us would go back over there, let the cat back in for the night, and feed her again. Walt ended up being the actual cat-sitter. It all went smoothly.

A month or so later, we bought a new car (the second-hand Citroën) and I decided that I wanted to go spend my birthday (March 5) over in the Allier département in northern Auvergne. I asked C if she would return the favor we had done for her and look in on Bertie the Black Cat while we were gone. She would be fine with that, she said. I ought to say that C and Bertie had had a difficult relationship for about five years. He was aggressive toward her and her cat. She was actually afraid of Bert. But C admitted in 2015 that she had started feeding Bertie in the evening (we feed him in the morning) and that he was spending a lot of time in her yard and getting along better with her cat. Those were the days when our border collie, Callie, wouldn't let Bertie spend much time in our house. She saw him as a rival, or an intruder.

Several times since 2015 Walt and I taken car trips for a few days or even a whole week (to the Vendée over on the Atlantic coast, and to Le Puy-en-Velay in Auvergne) and C has taken care of Bertie. We gave her keys to our house, as she had given us keys to hers. Walt and I were more comfortable traveling together (with the dog) because we knew that Bert was being looked after. We'll be taking care of C's cat, Shana (or is it Chat-Na?), this coming week, and she had agreed to take care of Bertie when we go up to the Baie de Somme area in April. Now we'll have to find another solution. Toutes les bonnes choses ont une fin — "All good things must come to an end."

P.S. It's raining this morning, and so far no signs of a leak over the wooden staircase. Holding my breath...

15 comments:

  1. we have used trustedhousesitters.com several times and so has our daughter when she was in Biarritz and now in Valencia...you only pay to join and do not pay the sitters......i can't recommend enough....we got many applicants (and we live out in the woods) Surely there would be people interested in being in your area.

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    1. How would this work with a cat who is used to being free and spending much of his time outdoors? I can see how a professional would keep him in a cage, but amateurs? Would it work?

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  2. There is an interesting typo at the end of the last paragraph, ...she had agreed to take car of Bertie... That made me think, since Tasha and Bertie are such good friends, why not take him with you and the dog when you go to the baie de Somme (not bête de somme)? He's such a well behaved cat, he might enjoy the ride? You'll just have to buy a leash for him. He might not like that, though!

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    1. I'd say that Tasha and Bertie just tolerate each other. It's not like they play together. Tasha has moments of jealousy when Bert is around. Bert basically ignores Tasha. Two things about taking Bert on vacation: cats notoriously don't like riding in the car. And gîte owners allow you one animal de compagnie, but I'm not sure two would be welcome. And the leash... well, that would be interesting.

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    2. You would have to keep Bertie indoors if you took him with you I think. Otherwise, he may get lost if he went outdoors in unfamiliar territory. That's not easy. Cats are experts at escaping.
      We use a cattery near to us for Daisy. It works really well and at least we know she's safe, well fed and can't wander off looking for us.

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    3. I agree, Jean. I think putting Bert up at the groomer's will be the best solution. Hope you had a happy birthday and that you and Nick will have a merry Christmas.

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  3. Does the mayor like cats? Looking after Bertie would be easy since he can come and go from the garage. Perhaps your neighbor will still be around in April. It takes a lot of time and energy to make a move like she's making.

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    1. We are hoping C will still be here in April, but we'll see. Otherwise we can board the cat nearby at the place where we have Tasha groomed. We've never done that, but I'm sure it will work fine.

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  4. Seems like people who live in the countryside are more apt to have pets, so perhaps your new neighbors will be cat and/or dog people.

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    1. I guess I hope that they will turn out to be cat people.

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  5. From what I know of the housesitter type sites, the people are checked and there's an effort to make good matches. Anyone who's had cats, especially if living in the country, should be comfortable with one like Bertie coming and going. The sitter would basically have to be sure he had access and food/water, and you'd have someone in place, watching the house. (I've looked at doing it myself.) Or, you could make a reservation with the groomer, just as a backup.
    C's house looks quite attractive, although that roof is going to need some attention at some point.

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    1. I checked the internet and found two "trusted housesitters" in Blois and one in Loches, but none closer than that. Last summer, one of our part-time neighbors came down here to spend a month in her house with her own cat and her daughter's. The daughter's cat disappeared. We all kept our eyes peeled for the missing cat but after a month we just gave up hope of ever finding it. The neighbor had checked with the village hall, the local vets, and the local animal shelter, with no success. We don't know if the cat had wandered off in an effort to go back to its home in Paris, or if somebody found the cat and took it home. Then, one month to the day after the disappearance, the daughter in Paris got a phone call from one of the local vets informing her that they had found the cat. Some people who live on the other side of the river, not more than a mile or two from here as the crow flies, had found it. And they noticed that the cat had a tatoo in one of its ears, so they took it to the vet's. Happy ending, but a miserable month for the neighbor, who felt responsible for losing her daughter's (and granddaughters') cat.
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  6. Ken re trusted housesitters...they come and stay in your house for the duration....we just had a wonderful couple from Canada stay and care for our 3 cats while we were in Spain....came home to content cats and clean house! it's a wonderful service...connects people who want to travel but maybe cant afford it to people who prefer to leave their pets at home and/or dont care to spend a fortune on pet sitters

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    1. We were able to find people to do that for us in SF. We paid them a daily rate to come stay in our house and take care of our dog while we were traveling. It worked out very well.

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