Our neighbor who is the mayor of the village we live in gave me some sad news a couple of days ago. Her daughter has passed away. She was diagnosed with lung cancer last year. She was not a smoker. Then the cancer spread to her brain and she had a stroke. She was in her early 50s and has left behind her husband and three children, the eldest about 20 years old. I met her a few times over the years but didn't really know her. She lived about three hours from Saint-Aignan. Her mother and father who live here have spent a lot of time on the road driving there from here and then back for months. They are both nearing age 80 and are exhausted, I'm sure.
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A few weeks ago, I had a collision with our mailbox. It was mounted on one of the posts that frame our front gate. I was taking the car and the dog out for a ride in the vineyard early one morning (long story...), and was turning right coming through the gate. Usually I turn left, which is the way down the hill we live on and to places like Saint-Aignan, Montrichard, and Blois, Anyway, I misjudged the space I needed to make that right turn. The result was a long but not very deep scratch on both of the car's passenger-side doors. I hope it doesn't start rusting. The mailbox didn't survive. We bought a new mailbox at the local hardware store and our landscape contractor was good enough to mount the new box on the fence post for us. All in all, the incident was a five or six day ordeal. I'm sad about the car, which is nearly 20 years old and is only now starting to show its age.
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Meanwhile, I've been having a lot of problems with my eyes and eyesight since the beginning of the year. I have spent a lot of time worrying and complaining that I can't figure out what the problem is. Does it have to do with the cataract operations I had in 2024? Or am I just suffering because of pollen allergies? We had a few months of rain nearly every day in the spring, and that weather pattern has changed only recently. I spent a lot of time trying to get my eye doctor on the telephone. When I had the cataract surgery in 2024, the doctor told me I would need to contact him again in two years' time for a follow-up appointment to see how my eyesight has evolved and which would probably lead to a laser procedure to make sure lens implants I have had since then are doing to job. I asked him if his office would notify me that it was time for the check-up, because I might forget. He looked at me like I was crazy and just said Non! So when my vision went blurry earlier this year, I figured it was time to make an appointment. But I couldn't get anyone on the phone. On some days my vision was better than on others, so I couldn't be sure if allergies were the problem, or something else. I finally got somebody on the phone last week. She located my file and quickly told me that the follow-up appointment would be scheduled for the month of October. I'll need to call back for an appointment in July, not before. I hope I don't have to live with blurry vision until October.
I had cataract surgery a few years ago. On my last checkup, I have some sort of film on my eyes that's causing a little problem focusing, blurring, and whole lot of blinking to try and clear it. I have an appointment next month to have some kind of laser procedure to clear it up. I asked the doctor if I would need a driver and he said no, so I guess it's nothing but a common procedure with a problem that can occur after cataract surgery. I have a yearly eye exam since I had cataract surgery. I have prescription glasses, but all I really need to read is drugstore readers. When I had the cataract surgery, I chose the distant lens rather than the multifocal lens. As a former contact lens wearer, the multifocal lens never worked very well for me.
ReplyDeleteI had to go to your old stomping grounds in Morehead City this past week to a doctor's appointment. The traffic was unbelievable from Swansboro right on to Morehead City. I can remember many days when I wanted to go shopping and I would go to Morehead to the old Belk's store rather than Jacksonville. It's not even tourist season yet. I guess the traffic will really start up after this holiday weekend and schools are out for summer vacation.. Your place in France is looking mighty idyllic vice the over populated coast of NC.
Wanda aka Galestorm
Thank you, Wanda. You have confirmed what I thought was going to happen here with my eyes next October. One of my big questions to ask here has to do whether or not I'll need a driver to get back home after the laser procedure is done. And that Morehead traffic! What's the solution? Nobody knows.One of my cousins said to me recently that "we are being invaded and overwhelmed by Raleighites. And new, gigantic houses everywhere. The next hurricane will be a big test...
DeleteThat was me, Ken, of course...
DeleteOh, what sad news for your mayor and her family, and I know you've mentioned your mayor many times.
ReplyDeleteSorry, too, to hear about the big scratch on the car :(
I wish that the doctor had just gone ahead and scheduled you to come in now, since you're having vision problems, darn it. I hope things clear up (no pun intended).
I agree that I think they should go ahead and schedule my appointment now, but they say that's not the way they do things. The doctor doesn't share his list of upcoming appointments, or whatever, until three months before they have been scheduled, or some thing like that. I feel sorry for our mayor and her husband. She is really driven, and he wants to be retired.
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